Friday, May 30, 2014
Winner Vs Loser
The winner is always part of the answer; The loser is always part of the problem.
The winner always has a program; The loser always has an excuse.
The winner says, “Let me do it for you“; The loser says, “That is not my job.”
The winner sees an answer to every problem; The loser sees a problem for every answer.
The winner says, “It may be difficult but it is possible; The loser says, “It may be possible but it is too difficult.”
When a winner makes a mistake, he says, ”I was wrong”; When loser makes a mistake, he says, ”It wasn’t my fault.”
A winner makes commitments; A loser makes promises.
Winners says,” I must do something”; Losers says, “Something must be done”.
Winners are a part of the team; Losers are apart from the team.
Winners see the gain; Losers see the pain.
Winners see possibilities; Losers see problems.
Winners believe in win- win; Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.
Winners see the potential; Losers see the past.
Winners are like a thermostat; Losers are like thermometers.
Winners choose what they say; Losers says what they choose.
Winners use hard arguments but soft words; Losers use soft arguments but hard words.
Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things; Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.
Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: “Don’t do to others what you would not want them to do you“; Losers follow the philosophy: ”Do it to others before they do it to you.”
Winners make it happen; Losers let it happen.
Winners plan and prepare to win. The key word is preparation.